I submitted this article a long long time ago so it was a nice little surprise when the edited & published version above was emailed to me.
My opinions on specifics have shifted slightly (but I’m 100% behind the main idea) and I probably would have used different examples and structuring looking back but I thought I will share it with you guys regardless because I am very proud that it exists.
I’m actually glad that I see so many imperfections with it, hopefully that means I’ve grown as a person and writer. On a side note, I’m so happy with how pretty it looks!
A disadvantage of being slightly more open with friends and family about the existence of my blog is feeling like I must censor myself on contentious issues.
Bearing that in mind, I have decided to say a massive f&#k you to consequences and discuss my thoughts on the sex industry.
I have grown up in a relatively sex positive environment and consider myself a liberal at heart. That is why I am a strong proponent of you do what you want, and I do what I want and we will mutually respect each other because we’re decent human beings.
Whether you choose to experience sex before marriage or abstain because you do not feel ready, only do it with one person or do it with a dozen, if it’s something private and exclusive or if you sell it as a commodity, it’s ultimately your choice and nobody else should give a fuck about said choice, unless you want them to… 😉
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